How easy it is to judge those who annoy us and those who break the rules! Of course, this is not some new phenomenon. Human beings have been doing it since the beginning of time. But today, we have made the judgment game a sensational and salacious sport.

The 24-hour cable ‘news’ programs are engaged in continual finger pointing and disdain of opposing points of view. They practically seduce us into paying attention and implore us to take sides. We soon identify ourselves as virtuous and the other as unethical or evil. We become engrossed when the powerful are mired in scandal and revile the outcast or marginalized who continue to cause trouble. We become self-appointed judges, juries and executioners.

“Pray that we might allow God to show us that compassion, mercy and forgiveness are far better than judgment.” ~ Drew Filkins

The people who are suffering and need our compassion and mercy the most too often receive our biased judgment. But who am I, and who are we, to judge? Consider the plight of our own personal brokenness.

Each of us has made plenty of mistakes. None of us will escape destructive patterns of behavior which, if scrutinized, could cause us to be condemned in one way or another. If we scorn those who suffer from addiction, ridicule those who have fallen into low places, criticize the homeless, blame the victims, or cast out the mentally ill, what are we doing but selfishly indulging misguided righteousness?Rather than offering mercy and compassion, we strike a blow of intolerance. Perhaps it is really the scorned, broken and wounded spirits within us which are crying out for forgiveness.

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